Natasha got her first taste of teasing and rejection yesterday, but (thankfully) I don’t think she fully realized that’s what was happening.
The back door was open and I heard the 5-year-old next-door protesting to his mom that the other kids were being mean to Natasha. I went out then, but Natasha didn’t seem disturbed at all, only more serious-faced than usual.
I talked with her and she came inside with me. Then she told my one of the girls in {neighbor-boy}’s yard was being unkind.
“She was making fun of {neighbor-boy}—saying he was in love. And he’s not in love, he’s just a kid.”
I found the observation fascinating, and what I got out of the collective event was that the visiting children noticed the children’s friendship, tried to tease them about it, and like good friends, they noticed the intent-to-harm their friend over the attack on themselves.
Or at least expressed themselves that way.
I think there’s something precious in that sensitivity; I hope we’ll see it continue.
p.s.
Melody was coming out of our car a couple of days ago when it was so sunny, panting for effect, “Wow, that car is freezing- Hot!”